Saturday, February 23, 2013

20-Every Child Needs Proper Direction

Every Day, from morning till night, everyone is doing there work. Like this, a small kid also starts his/her work since morning. Suppose in the evening, all of our family members are gossiping and our kid of age say 1 or 1 & half years old is also playing by his/her own. While running from one place to the another, if the kid falls down and starts crying, then both Parents rush toward the kid & try to divert his/her mind to some other direction. Some of the parents may start Convincing the kid by telling them that it wasn't his/her fault but the ground's flaw that he/she fell down. 

No doubt here we are diverting the mind of the child from crying, but simultaneously, we are directing him/her to rely on blaming others rather than correcting them.

Now we will see some other example. 

So I will change my words, Now I will say, In school, Teacher allots some Happy work to the students. Some Students do this work honestly, with proper study, understanding the concept; then writing the answers. Some student may do this work simply by copying from other students & some of the students may not do their work at all.

While checking this work, if the teacher asks about these cases, then one by one student will say I couldn't do this work because of someone had taken my notebook or simply say I had some work so I couldn't do this work.

Here shifting the reasons from one part to another, the student may make more & more mistakes.

The habit of speaking lie will be a serious problem for the child so right from a small age, the child needs proper directions.

Anil Satpute